The Philippines is a country rich in
traditions that were originally introduced
by Spanish missionaries. A few of these
Spanish-influenced customs are ever-present
in a typical Filipino wedding.
Usually, the bride wears the traditional
all-white wedding gown and the groom is
handsomely clad in the traditional barong.
The barong is a transparent button-up shirt
that is usually worn by the Filipino man
during special gatherings. At a traditional
Filipino wedding, many sponsors are present
to witness the union of the couple. The
sponsors symbolize guidance and support - a
group of individuals that the couple can
refer to in time of need.
While some of the sponsors have a "silent"
participation during the wedding ceremony,
two sets of sponsors play active roles. The
first set of sponsors play the role of veil
sponsors. The veil sponsors usually consist
of one man and one woman - perhaps one from
each side of the family. During a specific
point in the ceremony, the veil sponsors
carefully pin a large veil on top of the
bride's head and onto the shoulder of the
groom. The veil symbolizes unity and that
the couple shall be "clothed as one." The
other set of sponsors are called the cord
sponsors. After the veil is placed on both
the bride and groom, the cord sponsors place
a white cord loosely around the necks of the
couple in a "figure eight" configuration.
The cord symbolizes the lifelong bond or tie
between the bride and groom.
On either side of the unity candle is a long
stemmed candle. Both sets of parents light
their respective candle. When it comes time
for the wedding couple to light the unity
candle, the couple will light it with the
candles that were lit by both sets of
parents. This symbolizes the union of these
two families through the love and lifelong
bond of their children. Another
strongly-held tradition is the arras which
translated into Spanish means "earnest
money." The priest drops coins onto the
hands of both the bride and groom
symbolizing a life of fidelity and wealth.
The veil, cord, candle and arras are four
traditions routinely witnessed during a
Filipino wedding. Filipinos feel strongly
about their heritage and actively
incorporate their traditions into their
weddings.